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C.A.R.E Focused Education for Dogs & Their People

Inspiring Curiosity, Agency, Reflection, & Empathy

11/24/2020 0 Comments

What's the behavior you want?

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When you are dealing with problem behaviors, there are two main directions you can go in, two paths to changing the behavior. Just like with kids, we can tell our dogs NO all the time, but it's exhausting. And it can be an uphill battle.
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So let's explore the two paths...


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Path A:
Stop the problem behavior. Remove attention, remove access, give consequences (never physical). Tell your dog NO, don't do that. Stop running away. Stop begging. Stop jumping. Essentially, you have to wait for the behavior to happen so you can tell your dog not to do it.


Or...

Path B:
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Teach your dog a skill that is incompatible with the problem behavior. 

Your dog takes off with socks? Teach him to bring it. He can't run away with an item and bring you an item at the same time

Your dog begs at the table? Teach him to stay on his bed. He can't beg and be in his bed at the same time

Your dog runs away when you are trying to get him to come? Teach him to target your hand (touch your hand with his nose). He can't run away from you and offer that behavior at the same time

What problem behavior are you dealing with? What could you intentionally teach your dog to replace that behavior? 

So Path A or Path B. It's your choice but I know what I would prefer!
If you need help learning HOW to teach those replacement behaviors, that's exactly what my Elementary Pup Course in the Canine Homeschooler Academy teaches you
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11/11/2020 0 Comments

Is this a dream or could it be your reality?

Imagine this...

Someone knocks. Your dog takes that as a cue to run to his bed and lie down. You can then open the door, let the person in, get settled, and release your dog to say hello

Guess what? It is possible but it takes time. If you break that whole sequence down into small pieces, it's very do-able.

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11/10/2020 0 Comments

My favorite training tool

Do you know what my favorite training tool is?
I'll give you a few hints...
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  • It helps prevent jumping
  • It prevents your pups from attacking your kids when they move too fast
  • It prevents reinforcing the wrong behaviors
  • It helps with counter surfing issues
  • It keeps puppies safe
  • It's something that dogs really like to get away from, if not accustomed to it...
  • One downside... It's a tempting reason for cats to chase your pup

One tool that does all those things must be pretty expensive and special right?


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11/6/2020 0 Comments

An Evening Management Win

You know how you get to the end of the day and you just want to put your feet up?

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Maybe even enjoy a glass of wine. Drown in a little tv...but as soon as you sit down, your dog is ready to go...

Yup, me too. Willow is notorious for it. The picture above doesn't happen until long after I'm ready for it.
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Willow's trigger for needing to go outside and pacing or needing to bring me a toy or needing needing needing...is me sitting down.
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You know what? I have kids. I'm virtually schooling. I'm creating content, answering emails, taking videos, posting on social media, keeping the house somewhat tidy, feeding everyone, throwing the ball, doing the dishes, doing the laundry... must I go on? So at the end of the day, I like to put my feet up - watch a little TV and maybe enjoy a glass of wine. Do I want to play with Willow at that point? No, not so much. Do I want to cuddle with her? Sure. But she's not ready for that. She hasn't settled.

So we started a routine. I shared it on Facebook a couple of nights ago and it was appreciated by many so I thought I would share it here too!

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11/5/2020 0 Comments

Does your dog put everything in his mouth?

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Whether you have a puppy, a teenager, or an adult dog playing the game of keep-away with what he found, you have two choices in the moment

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You could jump on Path A: Catch your dog, take the item, and put it away or throw it away
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You could jump on Path B: Grab a treat, offer it to your dog in exchange for what he stole, and then take the item

Where does Path A take you?
Where does Path B take you?
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They go in two very different directions!

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11/4/2020 0 Comments

The 3 Reasons Why Dogs Jump

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Why does your dog jump? Before you can do anything about it, you need to know why it happens

Every behavior has a function with dogs. In the case of jumping, let’s look at what those functions might be so you can look at your own dog and breakdown which one(s) are most likely at play. 
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Function #1: For attention
Function #2: It feels good - It provides a Dopamine boost
Function #3: To access to a resource
In social animals, our attention plays an enormous role in our dog's behavior. They are often either trying to get closer to or further away from us. They are trying to increase or decrease distance. Attention seeking behaviors are distance-decreasing, by nature.

There was a study done in 2012 (Dorey & al., 20128(11) that showed that dogs significantly decreased their jumping when access to what they wanted was not available for at least 20 seconds after jumping.

Function #1: Attention Seeking

With attention-seeking dogs, they learn to jump when they realize that our eyes, face and hands (the things that give them the attention they want) are up above them. This starts at a young age when they tend to get reinforced for it more often because they’re little, and cute, and relatively harmless. Then they grow, and grow, and grow. Pretty soon, they’re still cute but a little less harmless when they jump! But while we changed the rules, we didn’t make that clear to them. We continue to reinforce the jumping, usually unconsciously.

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10/31/2020 0 Comments

Reasons why your dog keeps jumping

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Boing, Boing, Boing! 🤦‍♀️ Does that describe your dog?

I hear it all the time.
My dog won't stop jumping on me when I walk in the door.
My dog gets so excited to see people and jumps all over them.
My dog started stealing things off the counter now that he's big enough.
I feel like I'm constantly pushing my dog off of me.


While it's not a new problem for me to hear about, when you're in it, it can feel very overwhelming, embarrassing, and like you somehow created this problem...

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10/28/2020 0 Comments

Uncomplicate the behavior

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What do Lego bricks have to do with dog training?

 You can take a big behavior that you want to work on and pretend like it's a Lego creation.
Within your giant Lego creation, you can take this really big behavior and if you just teach the little pieces, you're soon able to put that big behavior back together again.
It's really solid because it has a really nice foundation to it.



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9/8/2020 0 Comments

My Pandemic Pivot - The Full Story

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I love serving the world by teaching. Teaching is my truest passion, whether by teaching dog behavior one-on-one or on a larger scale.
I started my business in 2008 but what I do now looks very different from what I did back then. 
Now, I have two kids, ages 6 and 8, and since having them I moved from teaching group classes (in the evenings and on weekends) to focusing on one-on-one training. Prior to the Pandemic, I would travel from home to home while they were in school. I would work directly with clients and I had also developed a program where I could do much of the training with the dog while people were at work. 
In March 2020, I went to a training conference, one I had been looking forward to for months. I was in KY for 2 days and on the day the conference was due to have their opening ceremony, they canceled. Needless to say, I was both selfishly devastated and also had no idea what was to come. I couldn't get a flight home for another 2 days. I decided to self-quarantine for 2 weeks while my kids began their virtual schooling. That's where it all began...
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9/4/2020 0 Comments

The perfect dog

You know those days when your dog responds as soon as you call him, lays on his bed while you eat a meal, joins you on a leisurely walk around the neighborhood, hangs out in the sunshine while the kids run around the yard, lays at your feet when you work, and cuddles up with you on the couch at the end of the day? 

​Virtually raise your hand if you often have those days!
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   ...Cue the crickets...

Yea, me either. No, really. And here's why.
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Training your dog isn't about hitting a button and getting an auto-response. Training your dog is about teaching. It's about teaching them your expectations, teaching them to trust, teaching them how to respond to a cue, teaching them how to play appropriately, teaching them how to take some down time, teaching them how to handle their emotions. 
One of the questions I hear most often is ...
My dog knows how to BLANK (insert the important skill) so why doesn't he listen? Why does he keep ignoring me? Do I have to use treats forever to get him to do what I want?

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